How is everyone?
I hope all is well for you guys.
So I have been in a funk now for about a week. Not so sure why but it is there. I think it has something to do with me kicking a female cousin that I treated like a sister out of my life.
Without going into to many details I will just say after dealing with her for a good 6 years I finally had enough. The final straw came at the tale end of December, with a few comments she made. One involving my new car, another her telling me I should have lied to my husband when he asked me a question about something I had done for her.
I can't for the life of me figure out why she would tell me I should have lied, knowing that those types of things cause problems. Unless she really did not care about my family or my marriage.
So at any rate she was the major drama in my life and now she is gone.
Going off of past comments, no I don't think she cared about my marriage. Only what I could or would do for her.
One thing I remember her telling me years ago when I first started taking care of my hair was, that it will never grow, shoulder length is the length it is meant to be. Whenever we where together at family events and someone would comment on how long my hair is she would be quick to say " but it's thin". She did this on the phone once when I was on 3 way with her and a girl she knew, she even went so far as to describe in detail what type of thinness she was talking about. For the record my hair is not thin, if she knew anything about hair she would understand what a relaxer does to hair strands.
Anyway I am finally done I have too much going on in my life to be surrounded by someone so negative and full of envy.
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OK misery loves company!!! Family or not, you don't owe her anything, sweetheart. Sometimes lonely, depressed, jealous women tend to hate on whatever you have going for yourself. The fact that YOU received compliments hurts. I could care less if your hair was as thin as Homer Simpson. She doesn't deserve the right to control you. Once you allow another person to take you to another level, chile they have some kind of control over you. Who gets that right? There's no need to curse her out (as I would do) but just realize its jealousy. You have to feel pity for lost souls and not allow their own insecurities to control and consume you. No flesh is worth that.
ReplyDeleteI know them chicks and I laugh in their faces. Stop doing favors for her, especially if its evident that she could care less about your demise.
Thanks Dwana, you are so correct.In the final blow up she did take me there. Now though I realise what she is and feel sorry for her.
ReplyDeleteAnyway thanks so much for the comment it really means alot.